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Moderation

Moderation is the immune system of a community. Done well, it’s invisible — the community feels healthy without anyone noticing the work. Done poorly, it either suppresses healthy disagreement or allows toxicity to spread.

  1. Standards before enforcement — Write down your expectations before you need to enforce them
  2. Behavior, not people — Moderate actions, not identities
  3. Proportional response — Match the intervention to the severity
  4. Consistent application — Rules apply to everyone, including leaders and founders
  5. Private first — Address problems privately before public action
LevelBehaviorResponse
1Off-topic, minor tone issuesGentle redirect in the moment
2Repeated pattern, disruptivePrivate message from moderator
3Personal attacks, bad faithFormal warning with specific expectations
4Continued after warningTemporary suspension
5Severe violation (threats, doxxing)Immediate removal

They contribute great content but are consistently abrasive. The community tolerates them because of their expertise. Don’t. One toxic member drives away ten good ones.

They keep bringing up topics outside the community’s focus. Redirect firmly: “That’s interesting but outside our scope. Have you considered [alternative venue]?”

They join to sell or recruit, not to contribute. One warning, then removal.

They’re technically members but never participate. After 3 months of inactivity, check in. If no response, consider them inactive and free up the seat.

Options:

  • Rotating moderator — Different person each meeting/week
  • Dedicated moderator team — 2-3 people with enforcement authority
  • Community self-moderation — Members call out violations; leaders intervene only when needed

For small groups (under 15), rotating works well. Larger communities benefit from a dedicated team.